I’m not sure who started the “there are no rules in writing” rule.
It certainly wasn’t an English teacher.
There ARE rules.
Rules for grammar, spelling, and punctuation bring order and dignity to our language. There are also rules for storytelling, rules for submissions, rules of common sense, rules of general communication that YOU MUST follow if you want to be taken seriously.
If you are a writer then your job is to communicate to your reader.
If you are deliberately being sloppy, apathetic or lazy then the message you’re sending to your reader is “I’m above the rules” or “You’re too stupid” or “Conventions aren’t for geniuses like me.”
I also think that if you ignore the rules, then you’re setting yourself up for failure, obscurity and it’s very likely other writers will make fun of you.
This is why:
Rules restrict chaos.
Have you ever been in a car accident because someone ran a red light? Traffic rules are there to keep everybody safe. Now, it’s is unlikely that a lack of grammar and spelling rules could send you to the emergency room, but nonetheless, if we didn’t have rules for grammar, spelling, and punctuation, we’d have a mess on our hands.
Rules are like personal hygiene for the written word.
You know that guy, that guy, who believes that toothpaste and deodorant were invented by capitalists? That guy is not the guy you want to share an elevator with, right? If you’re a writer, then if you avoid “the rules” it’s like you’re walking around with body odor. Do us all a favor — check your spelling before you leave the house. We will take you far more seriously if you keep your words tidy.
Rules separate the hacks from the professionals.
If you are serious about your writing and have aspirations to be published, then you should take care to follow not only grammar, punctuation and spelling rules but also rules in story structure, characterization, plots, and genre. Then, if you do that and expect to be noticed by agents, publishers, and editors, then follow their rules too! Pay attention to submission guidelines, write a decent query letter, act professional!
Rules are the first gatekeepers.
A reader is far more likely to pick up a polished one than one that thinks “rules are for losers”. You are not e.e.cummings. Yet. Until you earn notoriety and readers, don’t even think about breaking the rules because that’s what you think the cool kids do. The cool kids shine and polish their work because they respect the time and money the readers will invest.
Rules are your friends: without rules, you can’t be a good communicator.
The rules are not put there by “the man” to “bring you down”. Whether they are GSP (grammar, spelling, punctuation), storytelling or submissions rules, they are there to enhance your talent, to be your tools in your artistry, and to put your readers at ease.
Rules are not meant to be broken.
I’m all for imaginative writing. I love reading a story that’s innovative and creative. There aren’t enough fresh stories around! But the very best of these new, exciting works are successful not because they broke rules, there are excellent because they used the rules to their advantage. Rule-breaking in the name of creativity or passion is often rebellion and anarchy with a better agent.
Writing is an art.
Just like any art, there are conventions and disciplines set up for a reason. Fresh, innovative, creative works are always welcome. Anyone can break a rule and call it “genius”, but true genius comes from those who see rules and works with them.
My suggestion for all you rebels out there who want to be that romantic, passionate, non-conforming writer that shows the world you’ve got what it takes?
Sit down. Be quiet. Put in your 10,000 hours. Read every craft book you can get your hands on. Write regularly.
And more importantly?
Your talent, your art, and your readers deserve excellence.